Happy Birthday AJ and a health update....

Happy Birthday to my baby!!! My  baby is SIX!!! It seems as if this was just yesterday:

He is NO longer a baby...but very much a big boy!!

I remember his first hair cut....

*sigh* lol

All this sweetness:

Just VANISHES....and then he is:

LOL, one of my all time favorite LO's of Aj! This is my baby ALL the time! Just off the chains! LOL

And one of his most recent pictures, from one day....lol not long ago lol

See, off the chains. More on this day later. lol....

Now for the HEALTH UPDATE.

I'm going to try and condense this lol.

I have been going to the doctor every three months for almost two years now. My last appointment was
in August and everything was fine. It's very common for women to have abnormal pap smears. I was one of those women. They would always come back crazy, so I had to go get checked every three months. NOT FUN. I hated going YEARLY....so..umm yeah! LOL. Anyway, They did my pap smear, sent it off, I went home. They called me on Nov 2 (my 30th bday) and told me it came back crazy and I
needed to go back on the following Monday (Nov 5) to have a biopsy done. They called me once again on the 7th and told me I needed to meet with the oncologist. ONCOLOGIST = CANCER

That was so not what I wanted to hear. They did diagnose me with Cervical Cancer, and said it would be in my best interest to go ahead and have surgery to remove the cells. We did that on Friday. Right now I feel really good. They DID remove all the cells. I go back next week for another checkup, then every three weeks to get checked. In the event that it does return, then I will have to have a full hysto. I SO do not want that, but if I have to, then so be it. We did not tell the kids. No need to worry them right now. So you may be asking, why in the world are you putting your business out there like that? 

WELL BECAUSE I KNOW HOW EASY IT IS TO BRUSH OFF YOUR ANNUAL APPOINTMENT. KEEP IT!!!!!!!

What if I had put mine off? What if I had to wait an entire year? Keep your appointments guys.

So that is it guys. I will try and get caught up on my emails today.Thanks for everything! See ya'll later!

OH, to add a little laughter, how about a picture of me a few years ago, after I had my wisdom teeth pulled...HA! LOL

TOODLES!!!!

Comments

[Kim]

First off, happy birthday to your wonderful, crazy son! What a blessing!

Adrienne, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I have no doubt you'll be a rock steady wife, mother and woman during this time, but your friends (both personal and internet) will be right there behind you when you need us. This is a very powerful reminder about staying on top of those appointments. I just scheduled my annual last week because I got the nagging mammogram reminder in the mail.

Be strong!!

[The NON-Superwoman]

Glad to hear that all the cells were removed! Praise God!

[christina]

I'm glad to hear you are doing well and hope your continued checkups bring the same good news. Thanks for putting yourself out there as an example of why we shouldn't miss this very important (and easy, really) appointment!

[I Am Domestic]

WOW! Thanks for sharing. I've been putting mine off....but I'm calling them in the am. I will send up a prayer for you. And Happy Birthday AJ! He's sooooo cute!

[tiennie]

First - Happy Birthday to your little guy!

Second - I wish you all the best in your health. I hope you'll be all fine!

[vicki]

Thanks for the reminder. I have put mine off. I will make the appointment tomorrow (cos it is too late today to do it). My thoughts and prayers are with you that all remains clear.

And babies - don't they grow up too soon. You son is adorable.

[erica b.]

Happy B'day to the little man... looking like you just spit him out!

[Tany]

I'm just glad you're ok now and I'll keep praying so you remain ok. I hope all the bad things are gone for good...

And Happy Birthday AJ!!

[Isabelle]

((((Adrienne))))
What a scare and what an ordeal you've been through!
I'm glad you are doing good. You are so brave! You're in my thoughts and prayers.

[Ronalyn Barut]

Oh girl! I had no idea.. I wish I had taken the time to email you! I'm so glad you put it out there.. I needed my annual on Sept. and I have had abnormal paps before.. not good... and then my mom has uterine cancer.. she got the hysto.. it's a scare.. making an appn't, no excuses..

Lots of LOVE coming your way! Thanks for sharing a piece of your life:) You have helped a ton of us to get on it

Luv ya girl!

[kae]

Happy Birthday to your baby :) And I wish you all the best in your recovery Adrienne!

[gold]

Happy birthday to your ds!!
I will be praying for a healthy recover for you!

[Stacey_CrimsonPurl]

Happy 6th Birthday AJ!!

And you know you are already in my prayers.
I am setting up my appointment now!

@ wisdom teeth pic - Okay how about that looks like she is your cousin!! Haha! I have plenty of pics of me that don't even look like me but someone related to me! LOL

[del]

Happy Birthday to the big boy! :-)

So sorry to hear about your cancer scare!!! I really hope & pray nothing else happens. But thank you for the reminder of the importance of regular checkups & you're so right...what if you had waited?? {{{hugs}}}

[Larjmarj]

I'm glad to hear that you did all of your follow up and got everything taken care of. Make sure and continue to do so!

I can't believe you put the wisdom tooth pic up....you're a brave woman ;-)

Your son looks like a handful! Happy BD

[jb]

Wishing you a very successful recovery. A big thank you for sharing. I am going to call my doctor today.

Also wanted to mention we are counting down to the Classic in Orlando. We are excited, going for the first time.

Remember take care of yourself first, so you can take care of your beautiful family.

[Berry]

I admire you for sharing these news with us in such a simple way. You and you're family are in my thoughts and I hope that all your future checkups will turn out right. Don't change anything and keep being strong.

[tlewis]

Happy B-day to your little man!
I am so glad everything worked out for the best and pray that it does not come back. I get my PAP religiously, even when the doctor says you can skip a year if everything is normal(once you get to a certain age). Since I am only 33, I feel the need to get it yearly.I don't play the SKIP anything!

[carmell]

Happy Birfday AJ!!!
i'm glad you went back. wow. see know you got me thinking.
ok why did you just make me feel tiny! i hate going to the obgyn. love my obgyn to death but will not go unless i'm pregnant. haven't been since i had Aidan last year. i keep saying i'mma go but don't. i know i should... i just hate going through all that and i have to find a sitter. its just to much of a hassle. i know excuses...

[karen j]

Uh! Adrienne, I am so glad they discovered everything early and you were always proactive with your care... so many of us would rather keep our heads in the sand and hope for the best....
As I've said before you are such an inspiration...

[Nineteen69]

Happy Birthday to your son. He is truly adorable.

As for you, I am so glad you had the procedure and hope that all is well. I am praying for you and YES...ladies, get checked out. Go to your doctor on a regular basis.

Love you!

[maryse]

happy birthday to your son.

and good luck to you. i'm keeping my fingers crossed that the docs got that nasty cancer out.

[Cora]

Happy B-day to AJ, yes they do grow up too fast.

Sounds like you're in good spirits.
Thanks for sharing and emphasizing the importance of being on top of your health!!!!

My prayers are with you!!!

[Lu]

Girl! Goodness. I am sending prayers your way like you would not believe. Keep your spirits up and be positive.

[Cassandra]

Happy Birthday to little AJ! He is a character and a cutie pie!

I am in the same boat as you with the cervical cancer. I had the scare some years back. I now get checked annually.

I also have serious mammogram issues too! I always have to go back and get an ultrasound. They are never clear! I have very dense tissue that makes it hard to get a good reading. But I take it in stride and make my appointments. You are right. Better safe than sorry!

Sending you lots of prayers and well wishes!

[Charisse]

Girl, you know the Lord blesses us in order to bless others. You being on top of your game will be a wake up call for others. I know you will get past this and the cancer will not progress. That is my prayer for you. I had a hysto 3 years ago for fibroids. You, my love, will not have to go that far. I love you and my prayers are always answered so consider it done!

Happy Birthday AJ!

[Thomisia]

HB to little man and I'll be thinking of you and sending "get well" vibes!

[Kasey]

You're in my thoughts and prayers. Feel better soon.

[~gkw]

I feel so BAD!! I didn't know anything about this... I'm praying for you and I hope all turns out great!

Got good news from my Neurologist too... I guess I'm not gonna stroke out any time soon.... :)

[Deidra]

I will have you and you family in my thoughts and prayers daily. Keep the faith be strong and read the word everyday. If you need someone to talk to for encouragement e-mail me and I will give you my number at home. Just believe that God is in control and has all the power in his hands. I believe in my heart that you are healed and you will be here to tell others about you scare!

[Jackie]

Happy Birthday to your baby!!! And yes, it is SO important to schedule those appointments! I know it's unpleasant. I had to keep getting the paps & mammograms a couple of years ago until I finally got a good report. PRAISE GOD! It's just one of those things we have to stay on top of! I pray that you will get the "all clear" on your next visit! All will be well!!! Amen.

[jillian]

Happy Birthday AJ! And Fingers crossed that the worst is behind you! You are so right - get those annual exams.

[Lashell]

Happy B-day to your little boy!!! I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis and surgery. I hope that you get better soon and this does not rear its ugly head again. I am happy to see despite all that u are able to keep your spirits up. You are in my prayers.

[Melanie]

Glad they got rid of all the cells! I know that must have been scary for you. Be strong and keep us posted!

[virginia]

Happy birthday to my favorite (well, next to Atticus!) ;) little man. He is growing up so quick!

Girl, that stuff scares me! I am so sorry you are going through that. Let me know if you need ANYTHING- you know I lub you and am praying for you!

[Cynta]

happy birthday aj, man kids grow up superfast....I am praying for you adrienne glad they were able to remove them and I pray it does not return! i go every year even though I dread it, but it a small thing compared to what can happen if I don't...and that last picture was too too funny

[Christina]

Happy Birthday A.J! I am keeping you all in my prayers:)

[Sheree]

Happy Birthday to AJ!!!

And I know it sucks, but keep up your checkups. I had a similar situation about 10 yrs ago and had to go back every 3 months for two years then every 6 months for a couple of years and finally Im' back down to once a year. (yay!) I'm so glad they were able to find those cells and get them out- I'll be praying for you to have a clean bill of health with your next checkups!

[Monica]

Happy Birthday to AJ!!!

I had a very similar situation happen to me a couple of years ago and have been going once every 6 months. My last two test have finally come back normal. I'm glad they were able to remove the abnormal cells. I will be praying for you to get better soon.

[Shawna]

I wish you well. I was diagnosed with precancerous cells so I understand what you are going through but making others aware of how important it is to get an annual check-up is the best theropy. I will keep you in my prayers.

[vee]

I am praying that all of the cells are gone!! ((hugs)) you are so strong and I hope you have a speedy recovery!! :)
xoxo

[Sheri]

Happy Birthday to AJ! I think the best thing to do is still a positive and keep active. Also, it's alright to feel whatever you need to feel, and do whatever you need to do.

[cheryl]

ADRIENNE!!!!!!! I don't get online and on your blog for a few days and look at what happens!!!!! Man, oh man!!!! PLEASE CALL me if you need anything!!!

But that actually sounds like good news!! That they got it all and I'm sure it's gonna all be fine when you go back. And a hysto is not the worst thing in the world...it sure is better than the alternative!

I have been avoiding my yearly; I'm actually a year behind, so yes I will call my doctor...

[mimi]

are you nuts! how could you keep this from us :) Im sure everything is going to be fine and you are just wonderful for sharing this. It's good news and I will make sure to keep my appointments :)

[Cheryl]

Your son looks like you.

I'm glad that the cryo was able to remove all the cells. You're in my prayers.

[Kristi Sauer]

I am sure this whole situation was very traumatic for you :( I have had several friends with varying stages of cervical cancer, thank god they can detect it early and there are so many different treatments that work. My prayers and lots of hugs to you honey!
xoxoxoxoxox

[Christina]

Wow! I have been going through a similar, but not quite so drastic situation recently. I will be praying for and thinking about you. I hope you are feeling better.

[Holly]

Adrienne, hang in there.......so praying for you that everything is going to be all right. If anyone can get through something like this, it is YOU!! You have such strong resolve, and I know a lot of family and friends' support will help you. Take care of yourself, rest and get lots of knitting in!
Happy birthday to the big 6-yr-old in your house--he looks like a wild and crazy guy--have fun with him today.

[Vicki]

Oh wow, I'm so sorry you've been going through this. Thank goodness they got the cells removed - I'll keep you in my prayers.

[k]

I love your blog! I'm so sorry to read that you are going through this... You are in my prayers, as my younger sister just went through something similar,she was diagnosed and treated for HPV. Early detection is very important, thanks for sharing.
K

[sheila]

Number one: Your son is a cutie pie!!! Happy birthdayto him. I feel the same the days/yrs are flying by. My boy is 5.

Number two: OMG!!! I'm so glad for you and your family that it was caught in time! Thank you, Lord!!! I'm forwarding this to my triflin' cousin (who doesn't take care of herself)!

Number three: Grrrl, you know that was picture was after all that birthday partyin', c'mon tell the truth, LOL!

[Shannon O.]

First - your AJ is so cute..Happy Birthday! My oldest is turning 5 at the end of the month...time sure does fly.

Second - Glad to hear the good news in the health department....I think it's important to post about it, for you and for others. KEEP YOUR APPOINTMENTS GIRLS!!!

You are in my thoughts and prayers....

[robin]

Wow, I think I am the 100th commenter, but you know I've been thinking of you during this time. Happy Birthday to AJ - love that "Such a Character" LO. So cute! And what is up with that post-wisdom tooth pic - you do NOT look happy!

[Pirouette]

Wow. Thank you for sharing your story. Yes, yearly check ups are very important. Glad to hear the surgery was a success.

[Jeanette]

Annual Paps are just as important as annual mammos. Gotta take care of yourself and it sounds like you are doing a great job at it. :)

[Maria]

Oh my friend....I feel so bad. I had not heard from you in a while, I should have e-mailed you and asked how you were doing!!! I thought of you and meant to write you, but got a little self-absorved this weekend. So very glad they removed everything. Will keep you in prayer. Hugs to you! Love ya!

And happy birthday to your sweet boy!

[Trina]

First Happy birthday to your cute baby but nonbaby boy. He's so cute. Look just like you.

Second, you are so right about keeping those appts. I hate them but man to just think if I did not know what was going on in my body. I will keep you in my prayers ma and I'm so glad they got the cells.

[NancyJones]

GOD LOVE ya nad KNOW IM PRAYING MY HEART OUT FOR YOU! HAPPY BDAY TO YOUR BABY!@!

[Tasha]

Happy B-day AJ, looking forward to hearing more about your big day.

I am so in awe of how fast you took care of al lof this. It seems like it went fast which has got to be a blessing for you to get through it. I am praying for you and I admire you for your openness and willingness to "put your business out there." thanks for the encouragement too, I keep my appts. but so many don't and this is super important.

[Marlena]

Your story sounds so much like mine, right down to the damn quarterly pap tests! I had my cancerous cells removed three years ago, and everything has been normal since! They've been so normal, in fact, that I've gone from having tests four times a year, to having ONE every THREE years!!! My thoughts are with you, and hope you come out like I did. :)

[NurseByrd]

I am praying for you!

[Jeannie]

Hugs and Prayers sent to you.

[Tawnya]

Hey Sweetie... I am thinking of you and you have been in my prayers. Many hugs to you and your family! Happy Birthday wishes too for your sweetie! Love, T

[Karen]

Hey A,
Glad to hear you're alright! Take care of you, o.k? And thanks for lookin' out for us. I know AJ enjoyed his b-day, oh, and Happy Belated Birthday to you too! :)

[Melanie]

Hey girlie,

Happy Birthday AJ!!!! I only have 12 more years to wait (LOL)... Thanks for the pick of after you had your wisdom teeth pulled... I have to have 3 done and two root canals on aThursday (they tryin' to kill me)!!!

Have you seen the reality show called The Shot on VH1???

[anna]

girl, you already know you're on my prayer list. i feel for you on so many levels. i hate that annual pap smear, but i'm praying this will be the last time you EVER have to hear from an oncologist. *hugs* continue to give us updates so we can keep our prayers updated, please!

i'm loving those LOs watching your baby boy grow up. they truly take on a character all their own as they grow up, don't they?! :-D

oh i wish i would've had my dad take a picture when i came out of surgery from having my oral surgery. i know i was looking crazy. cheeks looking all puffed up, LOL!

[Nikki]

Happy birthday to AJ! Thank God you came thru surgery ok and I'll be praying for you.

[Cindy]

I'm filing a prayer for you so that it never comes back. And birthday to your son, he's adorable!

[dami]

wow!!! glad to hear you are doing fine. thank God. id someone hasn't already mentioned this: no news is not good news so ladies, please make sure you call your doctor for your results when you don't hear from them.

happy birthday, aj!

[Renee]

First off, happy birthday to AJ. How did he get to be six so soon? Seems like just yesterday that he was a toddler running around the crop.

Secondly, {{{big hugs}}} to you. I will keep you lifted up in prayer. Let me know if I can do anything for you.

[Julie]

Keeping in my thoughts and prayers!

Happy B-day to AJ!!

[Sue]

Adrienne, I am so sorry that you are having to go through all this. Thanks for sharing...I have been putting my visit off, you know, too busy right now, forgot to call and make the appt, different excuses. I AM going to call tomorrow (only cause it is closed tonight!) My appt. should have been in June, so I am not too late, but need to get my tail in gear!!!! I am so glad that you are okay and that your drs. took pretty aggresive actions quickly so that you will be safe. Hopefully this will be the end of it for you.... that will be my prayer for you :) I will be thinking of you and again, thanks for sharing.
Oh yeah, happy happy happy belated birthday!!!

[Sue]

Adrienne, I am so sorry that you are having to go through all this. Thanks for sharing...I have been putting my visit off, you know, too busy right now, forgot to call and make the appt, different excuses. I AM going to call tomorrow (only cause it is closed tonight!) My appt. should have been in June, so I am not too late, but need to get my tail in gear!!!! I am so glad that you are okay and that your drs. took pretty aggresive actions quickly so that you will be safe. Hopefully this will be the end of it for you.... that will be my prayer for you :) I will be thinking of you and again, thanks for sharing.
Oh yeah, happy happy happy belated birthday!!!

[Rolana]

Happy Birthday to AJ! You know I think he's such a cutie! Give my boy a huge kiss for me.
I'm so sorry about your cervical cancer diagnosis. I'm glad they got all the cells girl. I am praying that God will heal you because I know He's able. I go for my annual pap smear every year because I've had an abnormal pap in the past. You know I love you girl and I will keep you in my prayers.

[Christine Ousley]

Wow, Adrienne, I'm so glad that you kept up with your appointments. I'm really sorry that you are going through this but it sounds like the doctors are taking good care of you and that they caught it in time. I will be keeping you in my prayers and hoping that everything continues to go well.

[Tracey]

Thank you for being so open and reminding people to keep their annual checkups. I praise the Lord that you got the medical attention you needed as early as you did. I'm believing God for good reports in the future. Be blessed.

[Claire (Little Miss Sew N Sew)]

My prayers are with you, praying for a speedy recovery and no relapses. Good for you for sharing what so many women fear.

[Claire (Little Miss Sew N Sew)]

My prayers are with you, praying for a speedy recovery and no relapses. Good for you for sharing what so many women fear.

[Wanda]

Gurl, you've been through it for a minute. I will definitely keep you in prayer. I pray this removes the cancer and you will be cancer-free!

Happy Belated Birthday to AJ too.

[Tiffany]

OMGosh, Adrienne!!!! I am so glad that they removed all of the cells. I will continue to pray for you as I fully know what God is capable of.

On a lighter note, I remember that pic from when you had your wisdom removed. I couldn't help but chuckle...again. :-)

[kathy]

Wow Adrienne, and here I sent you an e-mail before reading your blog post. So glad you kept with your 3 month appointments and found it early. It's a great reminder to take care of ourselves. We're always so busy taking care of everyone else it's easy to blow off. I'll be sending you my good thoughts for a full recovery. Talk to you soon.

[Lara]

Happy Birthday to your sweet son! He is adorable.

You sound so strong in your post. I can only imagine how scary it must have been for you. You will all be in my thoughts and I hope you are in the clear. Take good care of yourself....and thanks for reminding us how important it is to take care of ourselves. It is soooo easy to miss those all too important appointments.

[Lynne Nelson-Berg]

Happy birthday to AJ. It was really nice seeing all the different layouts that you have done about him like that.

I am so glad that they found it early and that they have removed the cells. Sending you and your family love and hugs.

[lisa (momy4him)]

oh adrienne, i'm so glad you got in there and got it caught early. will you have to go thru any radiation to make sure they got it all?
i keep pushing mine back too, but i will be sure to do it now. thanks for sharing this with us.
happy birthday to your little dude!

[Kelly Miller]

So sorry to hear you have to go through this - you are definitely in my thoughts and prayers!!
Happy Birthday to AJ!

[Marty]

Adrienne, there's little that I can add to what has already been said. Having a hysto is not too bad. Each of us have our own unique challenges in life and remember that we're never given more than we can handle. You will do fine as there is a plan in the works. Thank you for sharing something so personal with the rest of us. (((Hugs)))

[Pam]

Adrienne,

I'm glad that you kept YOUR appointments! Thank God it was caught early and that all of the cells were removed. You will be in my prayers. Stay strong and thanks for the reminder to keep our appointments.

Happy B-Day to AJ!

[Janimé]

You have my good wishes - I'll be thinking positive thoughts for ya!

And thank you for putting the advice out there. Keep on doin' it.

None of us like those darned yearlies. But, they are certainly better than the alternative.

[shai]

My prayers are with you. I scheduled my yearly last month. I missed going when I should have earlier this year. Your sharing was very personal and it is good you chose to share the importance of keeping annual exams.

[Diana]

Adrienne! I am sorry to hear all this, but super glad they caught it early. I HATE doctors visits, period. My pulse raises as soon as I set foot in the door, but I do go every 6 months to the gyn! Good luck with everything and I hope it all turns out ok! This is why it is important to always enjoy every moment and always tell the people you love how you feel about them! Take care of yourself!

[Creole Wisdom]

You have the most positive and upbeat attitude of anyone I know Adrienne. You inspire me!

First of all, happy birthday to your cutie. He is adorable, and I love vintage scrapbook pages.

The wisdom teeth picture is hilarious, and you are not looking too happy in that photo. Remember my post about that?? Harharhar. Hilarious, but not till after the fact.

Hugs and prayers for health to be perfect!

Love,
Katie

[Isolde]

Happy Birthday to your beautiful boy. I was so shocked to read about your surgery. I hope all goes well so far. I'll keep you in my thoughts, sweetie.
Love, Isolde

[mimi]

6517 new look, but it's out of print :(
I can send you mine (I will just copy the size I need.

[mirela]

Happy Birthday AJ!

I can't believe you have such a big baby boy!!! I somehow imagined you are very very young too, like 16-18 or something!
You look great and you are strong to go throught this and write about it.
Please continue to be sttong no matter what and always hope for the best!

Best wishes from all my heart,
mirela

[Neecha]

Wish AJ a Happy Birthday for me and I'm glad you're doing ok and stuck with your check ups. I've been brushing mine off and was just thinking the other day that I need to find a doctor and get back in the swing of things. I'm praying for you and your family. Take care of yourself and get some rest.

Peace and Blessings

[greta adams]

happy birthday to AJ...and girl....please keep me posted...now i am all freaked out for you...i know you are probably somewhat calm and i am in hysterics!!

on a lighter note...i wish i could go for an annual more than once a year...my doctor is HOTTTTT! isn't that sick? ;)

[Melody]

I'm really glad you got yourself checked out and had the cells removed. I'm sending you hugs and good healing vibes.

[rosanne]

How is it possible you have an 11 and 6 year old when you hardly look a day over 21 yourself?! Happy B-day to the young-un, he's a real cutie. I am so happy to hear that you are doing better! Very scary stuff you are dealing with but what with all the support this online community is sending, take heart and know you are loved! Stay healthy and rested.

[Dawn Bibbs]

Happy Birthday, little AJ! I didn't know he and Jayla were THIS close in age. She'll be 6 next Tuesday.

Adrienne, how brave of you to share your personal life with us. I know you share things about yourself and your family all the time. But this is way different. I applaud your strength. I too have had one of those "crazy" PAP's. And you're right, women experience those all the time. And having to keep going to the doc is NOT fun!! But, just like you said, it's better to be safe than sorry. Of all the appts women have to keep up with, those OB/GYN appts are THE most important. And when you come of age, usually 40, those mamms need to be kept too. A MUST!!!

I pray that all is and will be well with you. Continue to keep your head and your spirts up. You've got TONS of support out here...remember that.

And speaking of remembering, I DO remember that picture of you after going to the dentist...LOL!!!

Take care, my friend.

[Nik]

I hate cancer with a passion and hate to see one of my girls (yes, I know I don't KNOW you, but I'm STILL claiming you as one of "my girls) has to deal with it.

Of course I'm praying for you like everyone else. Take Care of yourself, and keep getting checked.

Happy birthday little one!